Should my boyfriend move in with me ?? My boyfriend is not happy at uni he says he wants to quit and definatley doesn't think he will make it through to his third year. I have been very supportive and have been telling him to stick it out. However he really hates it problem is his mum and dad have thrown out his bed and his sister has now moved into his room. I feel really horrible sending him back home to sleep on his sofa and his family especially his dad who is controlling and lets just say not a nice man so im guessing hes going to move in with me. But im just not sure if it feels right :/ i mean i would love to live with him and i love him very much. but i have never had my own things in life growing up with a big family and not even having my own bithday for myself as im a triplet. I dont know if im really i just have this feeling inside but i want him to move in because id have company and id feel safer especially at nite . finances would be easier and i could do lots of home imrovements. Ma and craig have been together over 1 year now and we even spent the whole summer with him liviing with me which was really great but i did miss my space sometimes. but i enjoyed having someone there. What should i do its a really tricky situation because i dont want us to get on each others nerves and i will miss the feeling i get when i get really excited to see him when we have to meet up in preston at the weekends need help and advise!
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We all need our space,The moving in is ok but it will be very restrictive too.This is ok as long as your relationship is strong.
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I'd say it never hurts to get married and committed first because it will only make your relationship stronger if you do. Its only been one year so need to keep improving your relationship first
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Only you can decide that, do you see a future with your boyfriend have him sleep over as much as he can but not permanently then you will find out if its meant to be don't really no someone until you live with them, don't have him move in just for the financial side it won't work, if its meant to be it will work and you will always have that excited feeling it never goes away me and my partner have been together for a long time we both leave the house early for work and don't see each other till about 6 and still can't wait to get back to see him.
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The disadvantage :You will really miss the different exictement/nerves if he move with you. You will miss your space and privacy too. (and if your parents are conservative this is not a good news to them) And the advantages: u will know him alot,u will get to know one another. You are safer in his arms every night...
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